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Femdom / female dominance is any BDSM practice in which the dominant part is female. Typically, the dominant woman is called a Domina, "Mistress," or Dominatrix, depending on the context or personal preferences. A dominatrix does not necessarily have to dominate a male partner; she can also have a submissive woman, although that relationship, in English, is called lezdom, as opposed to femdom.



In female domination, the woman decides and her submissive or submissive voluntarily accepts the leadership of the woman. Femdom has an eminently sexual approach. From another less sexual angle, there are so-called female lead relationships (FLR).


Female domination practices



As in other BDSM orientations, there is no predefined set of activities that necessarily belong to the field of female domination. Generally, the dominant woman determines specific activities in the context of a mutually consensual encounter.


Some female domination practices are as follows:


* Foot worship: The submissive is forced to kiss the feet, legs or shoes of the female.

* Dildo harness: The woman penetrates the man with a harness attached to the waist, which includes an external dildo. There are different variants of harnesses, some include a small internal dildo that allows the woman to receive arousal and reach orgasm. Spanking: The woman whips the submissive as an erotic punishment.

* Forced bisexuality: The woman forces the submissive to have oral and / or anal sex with another man, in her presence.

* Slapping: The woman slaps the man. It can be combined with verbal humiliation (see erotic humiliation).

* Candaulism: The woman shows the submissive or images of him in complete nudity to other people, in order to obtain sexual gratification. It is a variant of humiliation.

* Spitting on the submissive or forcing him to eat or drink from her mouth is another practice.

* Exhibitionism: The woman has sexual relations with the submissive in public places where they can be discovered.

* Facesitting: The woman sits on top of the submissive's face. This practice can be done with the woman dressed, in underwear or with the naked woman, as a variant of forced cunnilingus or by forcing the man to practice rimming (anal stimulation with the tongue).

* Verbal humiliation: The woman dominates the man with humiliating comments about his physique or his masculinity. Golden shower or urolagnia: The woman urinates on the submissive.

* Failed orgasm: The woman excites the submissive until almost reaching orgasm, without letting him ejaculate.

* Trampling (trampling or sexual trampling, in English): The submissive is humiliated by being trampled by the female with or without shoes.

* Forced oral sex: The woman is satisfied by the man, holding the man by the head.

* Torture of genitals (cock and ball torture, in English): The woman punishes the submissive, nailing the nails or stepping with the heels or kicking in the genitals. This practice can be dangerous for man.


Female domination dates back to Antiquity, but it grew and spread from feminist thought and the active role of women in modern Western society. A 1985 study shows that 30 percent of the participants in BDSM practices are women.

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